Running from the Law

Monday, January 14, 2013

DIY Bridal Shower Photo Booth

One of my very best friends is getting married in March and I had the pleasure of co-hosting a bridal shower for her in December, along with her other bridesmaids.  Since she lives in Denver and didn't want to travel with loads of shower gifts, we all gave her gift cards so she could get her own toaster oven and mixer once she was back in Colorado.  However, since she wasn't opening gifts, we needed an activity to pass the time away...

PHOTO BOOTH!  

My friend Melissa is a high school teacher and she raided the theater departments's prop/costume closet and came up with the best stuff!  Then we set up the camera on a tripod and gave the ladies free reign over the props.  Instant DIY photobooth for $0!  It provided hours of entertainment too!  I'm still laughing just thinking about all the outfits.  I have a million hilarious photos, but here are few of my favorite sneak peeks.  




(I love this one of the bride-to-be tied up with her future mother in law laying down the law!)


















Friday, January 11, 2013

Growing Older But Not Up

Today is my birthday.  


As I turn 29 for the fifth time, I have to laugh about how much has changed over the past year.  This time last year if you asked me what I wanted for my birthday, I would have been able to give you a three page single-spaced printed list of all things shiny, sparkly and/or Burberry.  Today, however, I have one thing on my list...sleep.  

Sleep.  Glorious uninterrupted cold-dark-room wonderful feels-like-I'm-dead sleep.  I want to go to bed at 6:30 p.m. and not wake up until noon the next day.  I want to sleep without two dogs pushing me out of bed, without a cat wrapped around my head, without a snoring husband next to me, without a baby monitor on my nightstand.  One night of amazing refreshing energizing fan-fucking-tastic sleep!


However, that would mean getting rid of the baby, the husband, the dogs and the cat for a night and quite frankly, that sounds terrible.  I don't want to spend my birthday without my family.  Birthdays are for celebrating and I want to be surrounded by the ones that matter most to me.  So, this year I can't think of a better way to spend my birthday than a nice evening at home, a glass of champagne in hand, a snuggly baby on my hip, listening to my husband go on and on about fishing, watching Duck Dynasty and trying not to trip over one of the dogs under my feet.  

Maybe this whole growing up thing isn't so bad after all.




(*I will still gladly accept anything sparkly or Burberry.)

Thursday, January 10, 2013

Going Beyond Point and Click


You guys, I am so excited about today's post!  So, a few weeks ago I asked photographer extraordinaire (and friend) Anni Compton if she would write a little guest post  for us on how to improve your photography.  I feel like this is really fitting right now, since so many of bloggers I follow have a new year's goal to take more/better photos of their family.  And that is such an awesome goal!  You'll never regret having better photos of your little ones - they grow so quickly!  This post is great for those of you that just got a new DSLR for Christmas and for those of us that already have a DSLR, but may be stuck in a rut or want to take our photos to the next level.  Anni's broken it down into 8 little things you can do to improve your pictures.  These are really great tips.  Honestly, I cringed a little bit reading this because I am guilty of doing quite a few of the no-no's even though I know better!  I've already promised Anni that I'm going to take my camera off AV and throw my kit lens away immediately.  

As a huge bonus, Anni has graciously agreed to answer any of your questions about gear, settings, equipment and photography in general, so leave your questions in the comment section.  Take the opportunity to ask the pro!  I hope you guys enjoy this post and learn something.  I can't wait to see all your new and improved photos in 2013!


{Photo by Nirav Photography}

Hi, I’m Anni of Anni Cee Photographie. I’m a wedding photographer, but not the kind you might think of at first.  I work mostly with couples who are non-traditional in some way, whether that means they’re getting married in a field, a courthouse, a barn, or an art gallery, or just throwing a knockout shindig for their friends and families. My frequent flier miles are used often and I meet really fan-freaking-tastic people in the process, so I’m pretty damn happy.


So, I’ve been thinking a lot about how to write a tutorial that will really help you all take photos that you’re not just proud of - we’re not talking just Facebook likes here - but that will be worth printing and passing on. Speaking of which, you must (must, must!) print at least your favorite photos, and please don’t do it at Walgreens or Target. Click over to www.mpix.com right this second, because it will blow your mind. They’re very close to my pro lab in terms of quality (I use a different lab because I get wildly ecstatic about the words “deep matte” in a way only a photo nerd can) and I can’t overstate the worth of having printed photos to thumb through over the years.


Anyway. Back to making those photos worth printing.

I know it’s important to have something in here for both those of you who just unwrapped a DSLR for the holiday AND the crowd who’s ready to take it up a notch but already knows their stuff. So this list is going to start basic, but pay close attention, because some of these (albeit, simple) tips are things that helped my own process immensely in the past few years.

1) Get that camera off auto (and P, and AV, and whatever other newfangled “easy” settings they've come out with by now).

It sounds obvious, but a big part of photography is trial and error. You have to spend a lot of time with your camera, and you have to have moments where you want to smack your forehead when you’re editing those photos because you just had a total DUH moment and realized what you should have done differently. You need those moments to get better, and when you figure out why shooting your entire family at f/1.2 is a bad idea, the whole thing will start to come a lot more easily to you.


2)  Buy some editing software (something that’s beyond an Instagram-like filter).

It doesn't have to be Photoshop, in fact, the majority of my photos are edited using Adobe Lightroom. I tend to use Photoshop for album edits only. Just make sure you can adjust things like white balance, curves, etc.

3)  Upgrade that kit lens.

I use all prime lenses, so of course I’m going to love on those. For those of you who are asking “what in the world is a prime lens?” right now, they’re fixed focal length lenses (like 35mm, 50mm, 85mm), so there’s no zooming in or out. Nothing against zoom lenses, but they’re not as fast as I’d like. Most zooms have a maximum aperture of about 2.8, whereas many of my primes stop all the way open to f/1.2 - that’s some serious low-light power, and it   provides beautiful bokeh. There’s also something to be said for pushing yourself to work with one lens at a time - you learn to frame things, and see things, differently. If you don’t have the budget for L series lenses like I use, there are cheap options like the Canon nifty fifty, AKA the plastic fantastic, which you can buy on Amazon for a steal.

4)  Use natural light. 

Sometimes, flash or other artificial lighting is unavoidable. And that’s fine, but when it’s available, use that sun.  Direct sunlight is going to be too harsh in the middle of the day, so you’ll want to find a shady spot. Magic hour, which is right around sunrise and sunset, provides lovely, warm light that’s easy to shoot in from almost any angle. And fog or clouds provide gorgeous diffused light that makes skin look amazing.

They’re all different, and it’s important to learn (by trial and error, again) how to change your approach based on the lighting. It’s okay to chimp (look at the back of the camera) to see how things are going while you get the hang of this.

Just a note on natural light, it can be tough to mix it with artificial light like lamps (white balance nightmare!), so if you’re inside and have enough sunlight coming in that you can turn the lights off, it’ll make your photo look much nicer.


5) Diffuse your light.

If the fog or clouds aren't doing it for you, leaving a white or sheer curtain up on the window can make a world of difference when you’re shooting inside. Outside, using backlight can work wonders in the right situation. That means your subject faces you looking away from the sun so that you’re shooting into it. Be careful that you’re exposing   for their face though - if you’re letting your camera decide for you, it might come out much too dark.



6) Expose for the blinkies.

There’s a setting on most cameras called “highlight alert” and when you set it, the photo that pops up on your camera LCD after you take a picture will flash in the places that are overexposed. Sometimes it’s okay for this to go off - the sky will be overexposed when you’re exposing for your subject’s skin - but if you see the blinkies on someone’s face, or if you want to see the details of the clouds, the sky, a white dress, etc, you’ll pay attention to that flashing light and adjust accordingly. 



7) Learn to use back button focus.

This one made a world of difference for me. Most cameras automatically focus using the shutter button, which makes it difficult to focus on one part of the scene and then recompose your camera to frame it differently. I do this because I use Canon cameras, which have notoriously finnicky autofocus, and I trust that center point focus button the most. By setting the AF-ON button to be my focus, I can set the focus to any part of the frame I like, and keep it locked on that spot. Now all the shutter button does is fire the shutter to take the photo.



8) Kill your babies.

This is the most important tip I have by far.

I’m going to say it again: kill your babies.

Errr, please don’t take that the wrong way, I think Baby Mac is adorable and I have nothing against your actual kids, but I see far too many photographers (both amateurs and pros) who post way too many  bad photos.

Whether you’re posting a blog post or an album to Facebook, ask yourself why you’re including each photo. Does it add something to the story? Do you have another photo just like it you’ve already added? Is there a glaring technical fault (i.e., did you miss focus, or over/under-expose it?)

I know someone who does some photography work for fun. She set up a website for herself and has a Facebook page. Some of her work is really good, but she includes the outtakes, too. Those photos that are unflattering, boring, or poorly taken.

I get it, it sucks when a photo is almost right, but it’s not. And sometimes, if it’s your dog or your kid, it’s fine to post it anyway. But if you want to be a better photographer, you’ll learn to ruthlessly cull out those photos before posting. I promise you, 20 or 30 of your very best vacation photos will captivate your readers (and your friends) much more than 75 mediocre ones. 

It’s hard to find the gems when they’re surrounded by bad outtakes.  Edit.


That’s all I have for you right now - please feel free to ask me any questions you might have, and a huge thank you to Sara for having me on as a guest poster!

*All photos courtesy of Anni Cee Photographie

Tuesday, January 8, 2013

Life's Good On Our Boat

Hello everyone!  Sorry for the disappearing act over the last couple weeks, I have a good excuse...I promise.  Remember how I said I hadn't done anything in preparation for Christmas this year?  Well, that's kinda true.  I didn't put up a tree...or deck the halls...or buy any presents.  Instead, I bought plane tickets to St. John, USVI and left town!  Christmas in the islands!

{Coral Bay}

The photo above was the view from our the front deck of our house in Coral Bay.  Not too shabby, huh?  Months ago we decided that we'd like to skip Christmas (again) and head somewhere warm and sunny.  Since this past summer was so miserably hot (and I was still recovering from birth and was delirious from sleep deprivation) we really didn't get to enjoy our summer or get out much.  In order to fill our sunshine quota for the year and maximize our Vitamin D intake, we decided to spend 10 glorious days in the Caribbean over the holidays.  We found a great house with a pool, hot tub and killer view, booked our flights, rented some baby gear, packed our bags and off we went!  Ryan's parents joined us, so we weren't entirely devoid of family and full-on Grinchy over the holidays.  It was great getting to spend time with them and so nice having a couple extra sets of hands to help with the baby.  

{Cruz Bay}

In the weeks leading up to our trip, I started to feel a bit guilty about leaving town and missing out on all the traditional Christmas activities.  We didn't put up a tree or hang any stockings.  We didn't get to play in the snow.  We didn't go driving around looking at Christmas lights.  We didn't get to be Santa for the first time after the baby had gone to bed Christmas Eve.  But we've got the rest of our lives to do all that, right?  Mac doesn't know any better and I think the best present we could ever give him is a sense of adventure, a passport and 10 days of uninterrupted quality time with his parents and grandparents. You can't put that in a stocking!  And fresh mahi fish tacos and mango daiquiris for Christmas dinner may be a new tradition in our household.

{Waterlemon Cay}

I do have to say that vacation with a baby is hard.  Very hard, actually.  That's probably a whole separate post/bitch-session.  I have quite a bit to say on that subject that no one prepared me for.  But the island was gorgeous, the weather was perfection and the beaches were ours for the taking.  


{Hawksnest}

Mac loved the water!  He loved splashing and kicking and watching the waves.  He also loved eating the sand and licking the salt off our shoulders!  I have a feeling he's going to be a beach-loving kid, just like his daddy.




{Leinster Bay}

{Lamasher Bay}





{Salt Pond}



It was so wonderful to get away, but this time it was just as nice to get back home and back to our schedule and our lives.  Traveling is hard on little dudes and just as hard on exhausted new parents.  We arrived home to snow and freezing temperatures, but were kept nice and warm in bed that first night by two dogs and a cat that were beyond excited to see us.  There's nothing like a pile of pets on top of you while you sleep to make you feel loved and missed.  



We got home just in time to watch the ball drop on TV and have a couple glasses of champagne before crashing from pure exhaustion.  We didn't have a lot of time to reflect on the past year that evening, but looking back, 2012 was a very good year for us.  We were blessed with the sweetest, happiest, funniest, cutest kid on the planet who makes every single day fun and exciting.  It was challenging and exhausting and wonderful all at the same time.  We became parents.  We grew up (kinda).  Our marriage matured (or at least survived).  Our hearts expanded.  I absolutely cannot wait to see what 2013 brings us.  So many more firsts to come, so many new places to go, so much to look forward to.  


For some reason, making goals and resolutions just doesn't feel right this year.  Lately I feel like I can barely keep my head above water, so I don't really want the added pressure that comes with making resolutions and forcing myself to stick with them.  I need to cut myself some slack.  So instead, I love the idea of choosing a word to apply to the year.  One Little Word that sums up what you hope to do and be this year.  I thought about this a lot and finally decided on the word EMBRACE.  This is not my year to push myself, or challenge myself, or over-extend myself.  I've had a few of those years and they're exhausting.  Instead, this is my year to embrace life - hold my family and my baby close, to accept myself as I am, to be more welcoming and open, to love unconditionally, to live life in the moment and cherish each second.  I'm excited about that.



So cheers to a new year, a new start, a fresh beginning!


I hope 2013 is absolutely freaking wonderful to you!



“Shells sink, dreams float. Life's good on our boat. ” 
― Jimmy Buffett

Thursday, December 27, 2012

New Mommy Confessions - Part 11




Amy from The Baby Days

*  I have three kids. My newest is Eli, 9 months old.  My brain is so completely fried after having three kids that I can't remember to call Eli by the right name!! I use his brother's name. His sister's name. His dad's name. I've even called him names we were considering when I was pregnant. Maybe we picked the wrong name, I don't know. Oh, well. Either way, we sure do love little what's-his-face. :-)

*  The mere thought of my kids growing up and moving away brings me to tears.  I’m already telling my 5-year-old, “One day you’ll get to grow up, get married and live down the street from Mommy!!  Won’t that be GREAT?” 

* With each new child, I forgot everything I had previously learned about babies.  Everything!  When do they eat real food?  When do they pull up?  When do they babble?  Don’t ask me!  It’s not like I’ve done this three times or anything.

* I am sooooo sick of breastfeeding.  Don’t get me wrong—I’m very glad I’ve been able to do it for 9 months this time around, and I know it’s really good for the baby.  BUT.  I’m so tired of trying to find a place to feed him in public when I have my other two kids with me.  And my baby won’t take a bottle at all, so I can’t be away from him for too long.  It feels like my life revolves around feedings sometimes.  There are worse things for sure, but I’m definitely looking forward to getting my body back.

* We are seriously considering giving the baby nothing but diapers and wipes for Christmas this year.  I’m not trying to be cheap or anything, but we still have all of my older kids’ baby toys and we’re up to our eyeballs in plastic crap around here.  Not to mention, I know he’ll only want the boxes and bows.  I’m not a horrible mom, right?  Right??

* With my first and second kids, I read the milestone charts and knew exactly what my babies would/should be doing and when.  Yeah, I don’t do that so much with numero tres.  So when Eli masters a new skill, we’re genuinely surprised.  We’re like, “Hey, he rolled over!  I forgot they do that!”

* Sorry if this sounds sappy, because it is, but….I so love being a mom.  Sometimes my husband and I daydream about the things we’d do if we didn’t have children.  We’d travel, a lot. We’d have a bigger house and a nicer car.  Things would be unsticky, unbroken and uncluttered. We WOULDN’T have a friggin’ mini-van parked in our garage.  But we always, always agree that none of those things hold a candle to life with our three little ones.  As I’m typing this, my daughter is literally licking my face, pretending to be a dog.  You can’t buy that, people.


Jen from Dave + Jen = Max


*  If I could birth a 6 month old baby (not size wise, just age wise) then I probably would. My baby was a screamer and cried non-stop for basically the first 6 months of his life. He sure makes up for it now with his cuteness though, thank goodness. 

*  Speaking on the same subject. I believe I would like the infancy stage a little more if I hadn't breastfed. I truly think I was feeding for 80% of my day between breastfeeding (because they are so slow at first) and pumping after to ensure I was getting enough milk. It was a lot of work that I don't regret doing, but I don't think I enjoyed my little one as much as I could have. 

*  I have mastered the art of chugging a margarita/glass of wine in about 5 mins (or less) so I can get it through my system in order to breast feed later in the evening. Ya gotta do what ya gotta do to survive :) 

*  In order to keep Max busy while he zooms in his car walker, we usually have to sacrifice the dog. Max gets bored easily so we bribe the dog with food so she will stay around and he can chase her around the kitchen. It's no wonder his first word/sound is DA (for dog). 

Samma from Spice and Sass

Since I having a child, I have become the biggest sentimental cornball!  I cry at the drop of a hat now.  However, crying during aerobics last Saturday took the cake.

Okay, so I am going to my weekly Jazzercise class, and it's the owner's 25th anniversary.  All the instructors dress as Kim, the owner (keep in mind, they are all ripped- Jazz is no joke!), and have a special class honoring her.  Kim's daughter calls her on stage to do a cool down to this Martina McBride song with lyrics about how a mom hopes her daughter thinks she is strong and wise.  

(Here is the link http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eLS0Y40WwlA- I cannot watch it without bawling, gah!).  

Anyway, both mother and daughter are bawling.  It's so sweet and sentimental.  I'm frantically trying to wipe my tears away without the skinny college girls next to me seeing my sobbing.  

So yeah, crying during Jazzercise because of a Martina McBride song is a new low.  



Catch up on the rest of the New Mommy Confessions series:



Monday, December 24, 2012

Merry Christmas

I hope Santa is kind to you and your little ones this year.


MERRY CHRISTMAS!

Saturday, December 22, 2012

Holiday Photos with the Bigs & the Smalls

Since I already had the lights strung up and everything from our photo shoot with the cousins, I asked my friend Claire if she wanted to bring over her kids for a Christmas photo.  All FOUR of them!  I figured I'd get some cute pictures of them as a thank you for her guest blog post.  Cute is an understatement!  Seriously, these kids are adorable.  My boyfriend Gus was perfection, as usual.  George was a doll.  Of course we got major diva attitude from Miss CeCe.  And Charlie had an absolute freaking meltdown and scream/cried through the entire session.  Trying to get all four of them to look at the camera and smile was nearly impossible.  I took about 500 pictures in a matter of minutes and just prayed that a couple would turn out.  But just like the Mac/Alex photos, the bad ones are the BEST ones.  Those are the ones where the kids' personalities shine through.  I was laughing so hard during this session that I nearly peed my pants.  Man, I love these kids.  You've got to check these out!