Running from the Law

Thursday, March 24, 2016

Spring Family Hiking & What to Pack

Happy second day of spring everyone! I feel like I've been counting down the days and hours until warmer weather was upon us and we could all get outside and explore. With little kids that refuse to keep gloves on and insist on jumping in puddles and getting as wet and dirty as possible, warmer weather certainly has it's advantages. But don't get me wrong, the winter weather certainly hasn't keep us completely indoors for the last few months -- we are a family that loves being outside and loves "gear," so we make any weather work for whatever adventure we want to do. Therefore, when the first day of spring rolled in and we woke up to a blanket of snow on the ground, we certainly didn't let it stop us from our plans to take the kids hiking. 

For us, hiking is one of those activities we do year-round, which is part of the fun. The exact same trail can feel completely different depending on when you hike it. In the summer, the trees are in full bloom and the trails can be shadowy, damp and lush. In the fall, the trails are bright and airy and covered in gorgeous colored leaves. In the winter, the trees are bare, the forest feels wide open and you can see for miles in any direction. And in the spring, the green is just beginning to reappear and the wildlife is incredibly active, leading to all kinds of close encounters with deer, squirrels, rabbits and birds. 
The weather here in Missouri has been crazy lately (always). Last weekend was warm and rainy and the kids were wearing shorts and t-shirts by Wednesday. Things started cooling back off again on Saturday and yesterday (Sunday) we woke up to snow! While not completely unheard of or out of the realm of possibility, the snow was certainly a shock to my system and had me double-guessing myself for already putting the majority of my sweaters in storage. Lesson learned. However, the kids didn't seem to mind or care that it was cold and gladly would have donned their bathing suits for the hike so long as it meant we got out of the house and do some exploring (or 'sploring, as Mac calls it). 
Mac is a great little hiker. Like a true first born child, he loves leading the way, telling us all where to go and bossing us around. He takes it upon himself to clear our path of sticks, test out any benches and let us know if we picked a good (or bad) trail. In his opinion, good trails have lots of mud puddles, cross creeks and have good places to hide from your parent. Mim, on the other hand, is still getting used to hiking. She does really well for the first half of the hike and insists on walking on her own and chasing after Mac. But eventually (after about 15 minutes) she gets tired of tripping over sticks and her own feet, so Ryan and I end up carrying her back. We've thought about getting a hiking backpack (we had one we used a lot when she was smaller), but we know as soon as we pull the trigger and buy one she'll insist on walking the entire trail with us, so we're basically just waiting it out. 
Since it's that time of year when everyone wants to get outside and explore, I thought I'd make life a bit easier for you and give you my list of 15 things to pack when hiking with kids. I have this stuff packed in a bag and ready to take with us anytime we go hiking and yet it still takes us 45 minutes to get out the door...someone please tell me when (if ever) it get easier. My hope is that by giving you this list in advance, it'll only take you 45 minutes to get out the door, instead of 3.5 hours. However, I will not be holding my breath. 
1. Snacks - If your kids are anything like mine, they need to eat about every 20 minutes, regardless of where they are or what they're doing. It is not surprising at all to hear, "I need a snack" before we even reach the trailhead, so we tend to carry quite a few snacks with us. Our favorites are beef jerky, cashews, dried fruit, trail mix, applesauce pouches, gummy bears, granola bars and pretzels. Carbs for the win!

2. First Aid Kit - While I'm incredibly thankful that we haven't ever had to use our first aid kit, we carry it with us just in case. It's a basic case that can treat up to four people and contains a variety of bandages, cold pack, medicines and safety gear. But make sure your kit is kid-friendly - most kits are geared toward adults, so add kid-friendly medicines and bandages, if needed.

3. Pocket Knife/Multi-tool - A pocket knife or multi-tool comes in handy when you're hiking more than you'd ever guess. Even on short hikes with little ones and dogs, we use this to clear the trail of thorn bushes, cut briers out of the dog's fur and a million other things. 

4. Towels - When hiking (or doing anything) with kids, you can never have too many towels around.  Kids are a mess! We always make sure to have a towel with us in case someone falls in the creek or gets a little too aggressive with a mud puddle.

5. Water bottle - Why is it that the moment you step outside, everyone is dying of thirst? Trust me, it happens. You'll be asked for water 900 times in the course of 30 minutes. Maybe take a couple water bottles for each kid and one for the adults. 

6. Anti-bacterial hand wipes - Because there are no bathrooms on the trails. Enough said.

7. Tissues - Snot happens year-round. 

8. Lip balm with SPF - This one is pretty self-explanatory. I'm a big believer in sunscreen and making sure that everything is covered, including your lips. 

9. Sunscreen - Definitely a must-have if you're in a sunny place or doing a hike where you're out in the elements and exposed to sun. Even in the winter we put sunscreen on the kids faces if they're going to be in sun for any length of time. You can never be too careful.

10. Sunglasses - Not only do sunglasses help with the glare from the sun for the kids, but they protect your kids eyes from branches and sticks that could otherwise hurt them.  

11. Diapers - Similar to your kids being thirsty as soon as they get on the trail, someone will need a diaper change as well. I almost never fails. We love these Huggies Little Snugglers because they're soft, cushiony and fit Mim better than any other diaper. No leaks! 

12. Rechargeable cell phone battery pack - This one may not be a necessity if you're not using your phone much during your hike, but if (like me) you tend to take billion photos of every outing and/or you are using your phone for GPS (if you're geocaching on your hike!), then a backup battery charger is always a good idea.

13. Bug spray - The woods in Missouri are thick with mosquitoes, chiggers and ticks, so we do not mess around with our bug spray. We like something with a low concentration of DEET that can be sprayed on 

14. Plastic bags - We use these to pack out dirty diapers, muddy clothes, empty bottles and any trash we create or find along the way. 

15. Baby wipes - These baby wipes clean up anything, from sticky hands to muddy feet. We use them for everything. 

Do you take your kids hiking?
What's in your hiking bag (what am I forgetting)?

Wednesday, March 23, 2016

Stitch Fix - March Madness Edition

It's March! Time for another edition of Stitch Fix findings. I know it's been a while since my last Stitch Fix post from late January. I received a box in February, but due to sick kids, a hectic work schedule and lack of good light in the evenings I wasn't able to take any photos. Womp womp...blogger fail. However, you didn't miss much. I was once again (for the 5th month in a row) paired with a new stylist.  I'm really hoping eventually I find a stylist that really gets me or at least someone that will stick with me a couple months in a row and get to know my likes/dislikes. So far, no luck in that department. That month I requested a few specific items, which I've never done. I asked for a white v-neck shell to go under a blazer/cardigan/jacket, a pair of colored jeans (not red or green), a bright colored top and some fun moto leggings. I received one of those things - a bright colored top, which was the only item I kept. This was my first 1/5, which was disappointing. The other items they sent either weren't a good fit (over-sized plaid shirt, sweater with short torso) or weren't practical for my lifestyle ($200 white jeans!!! I have 2 messy kids...what were they thinking?). So, yeah...disappointed.

For my March fix, I decided not to request anything in particular or make any suggestions and just see what I ended up with. Total grab bag.  Here's what I received...
I really wanted to love this top. The color is SO me. I love love love bright red. I also love that it's a v-neck and a bit dressier than a regular t-shirt. However, I just don't think the fit was super flattering. For one, the detail on the shoulders made them feel very broad. I'm petite, so it felt very widening, if that makes any sense. Also, I wasn't really a fan of the double pockets on the front. They hit in exactly the wrong place, if you know what I mean. My girls don't need any extra flaps up there. And finally, the buttons on the front were kind of heavy, which pulled the shirt down in the front and made it a bit droopy. Maybe I just needed a smaller size? I don't know. It looks pretty good in the photos and I love the color - I wish it would have worked out.
VERDICT: RETURN

Market & Spruce Sam Hi-Lo Short Sleeve Tee
This is another one I had mixed feelings about. On the one hand, this shirt was so incredibly soft and comfortable. But, on the other hand, it's a plain gray t-shirt. There's nothing fancy about it and I just had a hard time justifying the price tag ($44) for something that I felt like I could get at Rack for half that price. Plus, the color just completely washes me out. I'm too pale right now (and always) to pull this off.
VERDICT: RETURN

I was very disappointed to pull out yet another pair of skinny jeans. I've already purchased two pairs of jeans from Stitch Fix and didn't really need another pair. However, the minute I put these on, I didn't want to take them off. Like ever. These are the most comfortable pair of jeans I've ever put on. They fit like a dream and are so incredibly soft you could sleep in them. They're actually quite a bit lighter than the jeans I normally wear, so I feel like they're more casual and would perfect for running around after the kids on the weekends. Plus, they look great with my favorite Chucks
VERDICT: KEEP



This bright blue floral skirt had so much potential. I love the colors and love florals, but it just didn't work for me. First of all, it was too long. I like my pencil skirts to hit at/above the knees, but this one hit below my knee (unless I hiked it up to my chest). Plus, there were 4 seams (front, back and both sides), which I didn't like. Every time I looked down I felt like maybe I was wearing the skirt backwards (I wasn't). The other issue I had was what to pair with this skirt - I felt like nothing I owned really worked with it. I tried on a number of options and didn't like any of them. And while I do work in a corporate office where this skirt would be appropriate, I just didn't see myself wearing it much. It's pretty and bright and sticks out, which means it's not something that you can wear more than once every couple of weeks, so I didn't think I'd get a lot of wear out of it. 
VERDICT: RETURN


Last but not least (ok...least) were these bronze d'orsay flats. First of all, I'm thrilled that Stitch Fix now offers shoes, but I didn't realize that my profile was set so that I'd receive them (I like to stick with clothing, no shoes or accessories). I was surprised to find shoes in my box, but willing to give them a shot. Unfortunately, they picked a style of shoe that is SO not me. I just can't wear this type of shoe -  I walk right out of the backs and cannot keep them on. Plus, I just don't like the way they look on my feet. Not a fan of the color either. Just an all-around fail. 
VERDICT: RETURN

Bonus item!!!
So, this is the bright colored shirt that I ended up keeping from my February box. As I mentioned above, this is the only item I kept and I almost didn't (I'm glad I did). This top is super cute with jeans for a casual look or can be dressed up and worn to the office. I love the color, the v-neck and the detail on the sleeve. I do wish the cap sleeves were a tad bit longer, but overall I really like this shirt. (For those that have asked, I'm wearing The Icon Skinny Jeans from Joe's Jeans, which are absolutely amazing.)
So there you have it! March was my second 1/5 in a row and once again, I was a bit disappointed. This fix had a lot of potential, though, so I'm not completely over it. I'm not sure if I'm getting more selective about what I'm keeping or if I just haven't found the right stylist, but I felt like this one was closer. I'm considering asking to keep this stylist and hopefully steer her more in the right direction, but I'm not sure if that's the way to go? Anyone had luck with that?

What do you think about these pieces?
Did I make the right decisions?
What was your favorite item? 


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Thursday, March 17, 2016

Geocaching with Kids


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This post has been updated with even more info & reposted on my new website Run Wild My Child

Tuesday, March 15, 2016

Recharging our Batteries

There's something about fresh country air, sunshine through the trees and spending time with family that fully recharges your tired soul after a long week. The kids and I are so lucky that my parents live on a farm in the middle of nowhere and encourage us to come visit often and get as dirty as possible. Country life and kids seem to go hand in hand - it's much harder to get bored on the farm when there's always fish to catch, rocks to move, trails to hike and creeks to explore. Even the littlest of souls delights in taking a break from our weekly routine to get outside and connect with nature.
I grew up in the country, surrounded by woods, creeks and caves. My childhood consisted of playing school in an old horse stable, catching tadpoles and crawdads in the creek, climbing trees and reading books in the middle of the woods all by myself. I had my brothers, but for the most part, I was on my own as a country kid. It gives you a lot of time to think, to read, to imagine and daydream. As I got older and started craving more social interaction with friends, I started to see the appeal of city life (or at least life within city limits) and couldn't wait to move away to college and into the hustle and bustle of a busy city. My freshman year of college was the first year I'd ever lived within city limits...or even in a town with a stoplight! It was culture shock in the best possible way and I fell in love with the convenience of 24-hour grocery stores, movie theaters that were less than 30 minutes away and neighbors! All things I never had growing up.
However, life has a way of coming full circle, and now that I have children of my own, I long for the quiet of the country and want to make sure they they get the chance to experience a little of my childhood. I want them to be able to see the stars at night and the dew on the plants in the morning. I want them to have the opportunity to be alone in the middle of the woods, with just the wind in the trees and the sound of a running creek. I want them to appreciate nature, plants and animals. I want them to explore and be independent, imaginative and adventurous. 
I love that my children get to have the best of both worlds. They get to grow up in a city, in a neighborhood full of friends their own age have access to great schools and a diverse population. During the week they get to explore museums and see shows, go to restaurants and visit vast libraries. City living is full of exciting events and opportunities I never dreamed of as a kid, but on the weekends, they also get to be country kids. They play in the mud, they bait their own hooks, they swim in creeks and swing on a tire hanging from a tree. They get to eat warm veggies straight out of the garden that they helped plant and water. They get to ride around on the golf cart and collect sticks for a nightly bonfire. They help catch worms and sweep the garage and mow the grass. They hike, they run, they explore. In the country, while there are always things to do, the kids aren't constantly being entertained - they have to use their imaginations to come up with games and stories and projects. Their little minds are fueled by green grass, fresh air and Vitamin D. 
While I'm not sure I could ever go back to living an hour from Target or Starbucks, I feel incredibly lucky to have this little oasis in the middle of nowhere and even more lucky to have the people that live there. Our lives are so busy these days and will continue to get even more hectic as the kids get older and their sports and social schedules fill up with little league tournaments, birthday parties and gymnastics meets, so I know how important it is to make sure we take the time to get away when we can. And while our weekends at the farm are great for the kids, they're just as refreshing for me and even more precious than ever before. A year ago, after his diagnosis, we weren't sure my dad would even be here today. This past year has made me realize that every day is a gift to be appreciated and cherished. Time spent outside is important, but time spent with family is invaluable, no matter where you are. The fact that we get the opportunity to have weekends like this and create these memories is the most amazing blessing we could ask for. 
“I go to nature to be soothed and healed, and to have 
my senses put in tune once more.” – John Burroughs