Lucky Me!

I know it's a kind of preppy, but I've always wanted a monogram. It would be like having a logo of my new initials that I could slap on everything. So what better time for designing a monogram than a wedding! In my new obsession of all things wedding-related, I started noticing wedding monograms more and more. A wedding monogram should ideally represent the couple and perhaps even reflect aspects of the wedding (like color palette, theme or location). I think we have such a unique wedding theme for our Jackson Hole mountain wedding that I was really excited to do something with it.

However, as I mentioned in my post below, I have zero artistic ability - the extent of my skill would be me experimenting with different fonts in Word - not really all that cool. Luckily, there are about a million different websites out there that specialize in creating custom monograms. But where to even start? As most of you know, this wedding planning process has not been easy for a control-freak like me. Murphy's Law seems to rule and some days it feels like nothing will ever work out. However, in a rare and unexpected twist of fate, the stars aligned and something finally went right. I WON a free custom monogram from Lucky Designs for entering a contest on their blog, LuckyMe (which I stalk because it's so awesome). How cool is that?! Lucky me is right!

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So, I was immediately contacted by Erin at LuckyDesigns about what I had in mind. I sent her all kinds of details about the wedding and a bunch of inspiration boards and pictures that I thought reflected the style of the wedding. Erin was fantastic! Within a few weeks I had 5 amazing monograms to pick from.

It was such a tough choice (I love that moose). But Ryan and I both fell in love with #3, the gorgeous "M" with the fly-fishing flies incorporated into it. We felt it was perfect for us! So, we went with that one and had Erin make a few minor modifications to it. And this is our final monogram!

Amazing! It was such a fun process to work with Erin on designing this. And because I also loved the fancy box around our names, but couldn't decide on whether it was too fancy or not, she gave me the file for both, so I have a choice! We've ordered a ton of notecards with this new monogram on it and expect to use it for years to come. Thank you SO much Erin and Lucky Designs!!

And They're Off...

Well, the invitations are officially in the mail and have been received by our guests. We even got a few responses already! So I guess we're now officially on the hook for going through with this whole marriage thing. :)

When I first started wedding planning, invitations were definitely not high on my priority list. Although I've received some absolutely gorgeous wedding invitations (Alice and Paige, in particular), they didn't seem important enough to me to warrant spending a lot of time or money on. I even considered making them myself on some cardstock from my closet and that would be that. Ha! This was not even close to what happened. Somewhere along the way, everything related to the wedding has turned into a personal reflection of who I am and what my wedding will be like. Is this true for all brides or just me? I don't know. But I didn't want the invitations to look cheap or home-made. I wanted them to be classy and elegant, yet rustic (like the wedding), but creative and unique (like us!). After all, the invitation sets the tone for the wedding and who wants cheap and crappy to be their theme? Not I!

So I started scouring the internet for ideas. I wanted something that would reflect the fact that we were having an outdoor destination wedding in the mountains of Jackson Hole. Our wedding venue (the Lazy Moose) is so gorgeous (very woodsy and Western), so I wanted something that reflected those qualities. Last summer I stumbled upon an invitaiton made of wood...how cool! Oslo Press had the most beautiful and unique invitations I'd ever seen (see picture below). Unfortunately they were SO far out my price range that it made me cringe.

So, the search continued but I didn't give up on the idea of doing our invitation on wood. I was determined to find a way to make it happen and still fit within our budget. Surprisingly, there were a couple of places that had wood invitations. However, either they were super expensive or I just didn't like the designs they offered. Yes, they were usually very nature-oriented (trees, acorns, etc.), but they weren't personal to us and didn't reflect the mountain-aspect we wanted. So I realized that I would probably have to design them myself. Which meant that I needed a reputable place that would print my design on the wood, relatively inexpensively. Enter lazerdesigns.com - BINGO! I ordered a sample of their invite and it was perfect. Exactly what I wanted and within our price range. And I could just send them a PDF of whatever design I wanted and they'd get it printed on wood.

Next step was creating a design. I loved the idea of having a design on the invitations that I could use on many elements throughout the wedding (programs, welcome bag, favors, etc.). However, I am not creative. I have no artistic bones in my entire body, so I needed help...preferably in the form of a graphic designer. Enter a little luck. While I was at Edgewood's In the Vineyard last November, I bid on a $250 gift certificate from JB Creatives, LLC for the design of announcment or invitations. I figured with having a wedding and all the wedding-related parties and 30th birthdays we have this year, I'd have plenty of opportunity to use the gift certificate. So now that I needed a graphic designer, I contacted Jeanette Ballinger of JB Creatives to help me out. I assembled all my "inspirational" pictures of invitations that I liked and ideas that I had. We went through hundreds of designs, but one in particular stuck out...

This was an invitation set featured in Martha Stewart weddings for a couple that was married on a farm. Rumor has it that the bride is a graphic designer for Williams-Sonoma and designed the invitation suite. She used the individual graphics (animals and flair elements) from the heart and incorporated them into other wedding elements. This seemed perfect for us...if only we could change the farm animals to mountain animals. Jeanette and I worked on getting everything perfect on the design and finally sent it off to be printed on wood. I think they turned out so BEAUTIFUL!

How cool are those? I know! So, with the invitations done, the next step was the reply card. I wanted a postcard, mainly to cut down on paper and it didn't hurt that postage was cheaper. On the front of the card, we put the same heart from the invitations, followed by our initials and the wedding date. On the back of the card, other than the basic "are you coming?" question, we also asked people for their entree choices for dinner. Since we're having a "local Jackson Hole fare" for dinner at the reception, we used the trout and the bison as two of the meal options. See, we're using those animals already! Then I ordered custom Moose stamps from Zazzle to complete the look. Unfortunately, since our "return by" date straddled a postage rate increase, we also had to add a 1 cent stamp to make sure they'd make it back to us. The Tiffany lamp isn't quite what I had in mind, but it's not too terrible. Oh well.

While I was doing all this "research" on invitations, I also fell in love with the idea of including a map of the local area with the invite. I thought this was especially important since it is a destination wedding and people aren't familiar with the area. Plus the whole idea that Jackson Hole is a couple different towns (including Jackson and Teton Village and Wilson) was a little confusing to me at first, so I thought it'd help clarify things. There were a couple pictures that I found that I really liked. At first I considered making the map myself on the computer and adding some cute graphics (see first picture below). Turned out to be rather hard to do. Then I found some awesome maps by Laura Hooper, that were personalized and hand-drawn (see second picture below). They were just SO cute I knew I had to do something similar.

However, I knew that I couldn't draw this myself (and I didn't really want to spend the money asking Laura to do it), so I came up with the PERFECT solution. Who better to ask than my amazingly talented stepmom Kelly! She's a wonderful artist and finally said yes after me begging her to give it a try. It took her less than a week before I got this in an email...wow!!! I was shocked. It was better than I even imagined it would be. Didn't she do an incredible job?! I'm so impressed with this map - it incorporates all our important wedding places and uses so many adorable symbols (we love that fly fishing rod). I'm just in love with it!

And on the back of the map, we also printed driving directions to the ceremony/reception location.

So, that's it! The whole wedding invitation suite. We added a very cool Mt. McKinley stamp to give them a mountain-top feel. I'm so pleased with the way they turned out! Hopefully you've received yours and can make it to the wedding!! See you in Jackson Hole!!

Bridal Shower

My incredibly wonderful and generous friend Brooke threw me a bridal shower at the beginning of April. I can't even begin to express how much fun it was! Brooke is a recent newlywed herself and has been so supportive and encouraging through the whole wedding planning process. I super-mega-heart this girl! She's not only a wealth of information and ideas, but she has the most impeccable taste, so I love getting her opinion on everything! She's helped with invitations, ettiquette questions, and she even went with me to try on my dress back in December when it finally arrived. Everything she's done has really meant a lot to me...and this shower was icing on the cake.

This was my very first bridal shower and I was so nervous I could barely sleep the night before. I've been to a million bridal showers, but I've never actually be the one to receive the gifts and open them in front of everyone. I was so nervous that I'd get something I didn't like and not be able to pretend very well that I liked it and hurt someone's feelings. Silly me...I guess I temporarily forgot that my friends have AMAZING taste and I LOVED everything! We had a great turnout - it was so good to see everyone. And the food and drinks were fantastic (you can tell I was loving the mimosas in the pictures below!). Thanks again Brooke for doing this for me! You're the best!

Me & Brooke

Alice, Amanda & Me

My bridesmaids Heather, Kasey Jacquie and Me

Me & Michelle

Me & Amanda

Jacquie & Me x 2

Me & Paige

My beautiful bridesmaids

Me, so excited about seafood forks I could barely contain myself

Jackson Hole Recon Mission #2

Jackson Hole was AMAZING!!

I was so nervous before leaving because this trip has so many potential things that could have gone wrong and completely screwed us up. Had our flight been delayed for any amount of time, we would have missed all our appointments on Friday. If we had to reschedule for Saturday, we wouldn’t be able to get any skiing in. And if we couldn’t ski on Saturday, then Sunday was going to be a really miserable day because we didn't have enough time and Ryan would be so disappointed. So we were praying for great weather and no delays.

Our flight to Jackson Hole was packed with excited skiers. We had a group of hard-core ski bums surrounding us who didn’t stop talking about all the different runs and difficulty of the mountain. I was excited, but growing more and more nervous about this adventure. I’ve only skied twice in my life…and both times were two weeks ago when Ryan and I went to Hidden Valley, the make-shift “ski resort” on a golf course about 20 minutes from our house. I had taken a private lesson both days and felt comfortable enough at Hidden Valley to brave the “big hill” and make it down alive, but I was by no means comfortable on my skis. I’m definitely not a “natural,” but I have strong legs from running and balance from gymnastics, so I was picking it up (it took me longer to figure out how to get off the chair lift safely than to actually ski). But I knew that Rendezvous Mountain was incredibly vertical and one of the most difficult mountains in the country for beginners, so my confidence was next to nothing.

We landed in Jackson Hole (right on time) to mild weather and cloudy skies. I was disappointed that the clouds were blocking our views of the Tetons and really hoping that this would clear up soon. We got our bags and rental car (a huge Chevy Suburban) and headed for the Lazy Moose. Seeing the Lazy Moose was the entire reason for the trip, so I was anxious to get there and make sure we had made a good decision on the wedding location. We met our wedding planner, Kathi Michel in Wilson and made our way up the road. As we pulled into the driveway of the Lazy Moose, we could tell that it was going to be spectacular. It was a gorgeous log home, sitting up on a hill, overlooking the valley and the mountains. We crossed over Fish Creek on a little bridge and made our way past a greenhouse and gardens. Of course, everything was covered by 8 feet of snow, so we were imagining what the place would look like.

Upon walking inside the Lazy Moose, I knew immediately that we had made the right decision. The place was GORGEOUS! It had such a warm and cozy feeling. It had all the Western charm we were looking for, but was still elegant and sophisticated. The owners, Robin and Cherrie, were absolutely fantastic and made us feel right at home. I’m more excited than ever about the wedding! Here are some pictures.

After visiting the Lazy Moose, Kathi, Ryan and I headed into town to do our tasting with the caterer and cake company. We sampled 7 hors d’oeuvres and picked our 5 favorites. Then we tried a couple of the entrée options. Everything was absolutely fantastic! And then the best part – CAKE! Monica from Jackson Cake Company brought us the most fantastic cupcakes. They were moist, delicious and had the lightest, most perfect icing I’ve ever tasted. Yum.

Next stop was Teton Village for ski rentals. The entire village was covered in snow and twinkle lights and looked like it was straight out of a fairy tale. The village is modeled after a Swiss chalet ski village and was picture perfect. We managed to rent boots, skis and poles with little difficulty and then headed to Jackson Hole Resort Lodging to pick up the key to our townhouse. Jackson Hole Resort Lodging was so fantastic – they gave us a complimentary 3-bedroom townhouse for our visit, in the luxurious Moose Creek section of town. Our place was unbelievable, with a private hot tub, garage, full kitchen, balconies, fireplace and gorgeous furnishings. And the best part, in the morning, we put on our ski boots and the lift was right outside our front door!

Saturday morning was spent on the slopes. It was a crystal clear and sunny day. We caught the Moose Creek lift and had a couple small easy runs down to the Village to pick up our lift passes. Unfortunately, my boots were so unbelievably uncomfortable that I could barely make it down the mountain. On the verge of tears, we switched out my boots for a different pair and all was well again. Ryan spent the morning with me on the green slopes. It took a few runs for me to feel comfortable again, but by that time, it was time to meet Kathi and Shawn at the bottom of the gondola for our scouting trip up the mountain.

It was my brilliant idea to see if we could have our rehearsal dinner on the top of the mountain. Shawn, from Jackson Hole Mountain Resort has been working with us to make this possible. She’s been great about everything – being flexible with the menu, coming up with creative ideas, and working with us to make sure everything is perfect! We all boarded the gondola and took it to the base of the Headwall at 9,095 feet. Up there, they have a gourmet restaurant and a deli. Of course, the gourmet restaurant would be fantastic, but was WAY out of our price range. So Shawn suggested an outdoor Mountain-top BBQ outside the deli on the patio, overlooking the entire valley. Perfect!! We’ll have our guests ride the gondola up to the summit, then treat them to a BBQ buffet, with a bar and s’mores, followed by toasting and roasting. It’ll be such a great relaxing evening with our friends and family before the wedding.

Us at the top of the mountain.

Ryan skied down the mountain from the summit, and I took the gondola back down with Kathi and Shawn. We met at the bottom for our next run: my very first blue slope! At first I was doing really well. Not completely great, but confident enough that I wouldn’t die going down the mountain. That is, until Ryan accidentally took me down a black diamond slope. Yep, I was done. After a number of bad falls, backward somersaults, losing both skis, nearly breaking my arm and fighting back the tears I finally made it back to the blue slope. Needless to say that Ryan was in trouble. I sent him on his way to do the hard stuff himself, while I went back to the bunny slope to nurse my wounded pride and confidence. And although the bunny slopes helped, there’s nothing like being out-skied by a bunch of 4 year-olds to make you feel like such a loser. However, overall, it was a really fun ski adventure. That’s a hard mountain! I just hope that next time we do this, I’m a little better and can enjoy and appreciate it more.


The rest of our weekend was relaxing and enjoyable. We were absolutley exhausted, so we didn't do all that much. We had a wonderful dinner at the Million Dollar Cowboy Bar on Saturday night. We spent Sunday shopping in Jackson (Ryan had to hit the fly fishing shop) and driving around Teton National Park looking at the mountains and for wildlife. We ended up seeing a couple coyotes, a ton of elk, a deer and two moose. It was such a great trip; we were not ready to leave. Fortunately, we’ll be back soon! And who knows, maybe we’ll just pack our bags and move to the mountains one day!

Me with two moose in the background

The Tetons

Adios Jackson Hole!

Wedding Update

Hello! As we're getting closer and closer to July, I've been getting all kinds of questions about the wedding and how things are going. And my only answer right now is...we'll see after this weekend! Tomorrow Ryan and I head off to Jackson Hole for a weekend of wedding-related activities. We're planning on (1) seeing the new venue; (2) picking a ceremony location; (3) picking table decor and china/glassware; (4) meeting with the florist to discuss bouquets, boutonnieres and decorations; (5) having a tasting with the caterer; (6) tasting and designing the wedding cake; (7) seeing the rehearsal dinner location; (8) picking the rehearsal dinner menu; (9) touring the lodging arrangements; (10) and possibly meeting with the judge that will marry us. And if there's any downtime at all, we're hoping to hit the slopes! Whew! What a weekend!

I'm pretty excited and very very nervous about this trip. With the way our wedding luck as been going so far, I have no idea what to expect. As a lot of you know, we've had some rather unfortunate news with our wedding venue and it's been a pretty crazy few months trying to get it all figured out. If you remember, I flew out there last May to check out locations for our wedding. I wanted something cozy and rustic, but elegant with spectacular views. Ideally, I wanted an outdoor spot for the ceremony overlooking the Tetons, an indoor place for the reception (so we wouldn't have to tent), and somewhere closeby where we could get ready or stay. Enter Crescent H Ranch. It was a a former Orvis fly fishing lodge with ten little rustic guest cabins, each named for a native or renowned trout species, a gorgeous lodge for the reception and a meadow overlooking the mountains for the ceremony. It was in our budget and even had a fly-fishing trout theme. PERFECT!

However, seven months later, the nightmare began. The planner at Crescent H called us and said that the owners of Crescent H received an offer to sell the place to some of the local homeowners around the ranch. The ranch was not for sale, but the potential buyers asked how much they would accept for the place and then matched it. The buyers wanted to privatize the ranch for their own personal use…meaning that if the deal went through, the new buyers would not honor any of the contracts for next year, including ours. Ahh!! They said they would know whether the sale went through in three weeks...would we wait? If we didn't want to wait, they would give us our deposit back and we'd have to find somewhere else. Begin total panic and chaos mode.

Right away we realized that we still wanted to have the wedding at Crescent H, if that was an option, but we also had to start looking at other places. Unfortunately, there were no places that I visited when I was out there back in May that I loved nearly as much. Other places were nice, but didn’t have all the things we wanted or were way out of our budget. Our wedding planner starting working overtime to see what else would be available that weekend (so we wouldn't lose the deposit on the photographer, band, etc.). Needless to say, this made me so mad b/c I had my pick of all the places in May when I went (b/c I was so early), but now all kinds of places were already reserved.

Our wonderful (and very patient) planner advised us to relax and remain calm…there was still a chance that either the sale wouldn't go through (for some reason) or that maybe the buyers woudl have a change of heart and would honor the contracts for the summer and then privatize it later. We just didn't know. When the time finally came, we got a call from the ranch that the owners had extended the deadline to the end of the year. More waiting. We still weren't ready to pull out, without having a back-up location and it was the holidays, so we just decided to keep waiting.

In the meantime, we happened upon another little rustic ranch that might be a back-up place to have the ceremony and reception. My photographer shot a rehearsal dinner there last year, and I fell in love with the pictures. As for style and elegance, it was probably even more spectacular than Crescent H. It didn't have the fly-fishing theme or the cabins on the property, but was really beautiful with horses, a bar with saddle stools, big hearth stone fireplaces, elkhorn chandelieres and and outdoor lounge area. Very cozy and western. Of course, it's more than we had originally budgeted (and would require a lot of additional charges that we weren't considering) but it was available on our date and beautiful. Hopefully we could work something out.

January 5th finally comes along and we hear from Crescent H...they owners extended the deadline AGAIN. Now the buyers had until the end of January. At this point, we were through. The owners were obviously doing whatever they could to make this sale happen. And even if the sale didn't go through, what was to keep this from happening again in a few months, when it was too late to find another place? Our confidence was completely shaken. We had to move on and find some place else. So, we will not be getting married at the little fly fishing villa we fell in love with. However, our back-up location looks so amazing, and we are in the process of getting everything finalized to proceed as planned. The new place is called the Lazy Moose Ranch. It is also located in Wilson, Wyoming, in between Jackson and Teton Village. Although it doesn’t have the fly fishing motif of the original location, my photographer and wedding planner both say that the Lazy Moose is even more beautiful and elegant. We cannot wait to see it!!!

Talk about stressful! I thought we were going to avoid a lot of the stress and drama of wedding planning by having a destination wedding. Wrong! I can't believe I haven't had a nervous breakdown yet. Anyway, my fingers are crossed that everything will work out in the end for the best (everything happens for a reason, right?!). I think we'll love the new place - I promise to take lots of pictures!

Halloween Party 2008

This year’s Annual Haunted Halloween Costume Party was better than ever. I was pleasantly surprised with what a great turn-out we got, especially with so many other parties (and new babies) this year. The weather was perfect and the food was great, but I was absolutely blown out of the water by how good the costumes were this year!! Talk about creative and fun!! Here are some highlights…

Me as Madonna and Ryan as "The Dude" from the Big Lebowski

Winners of the Couples Costume, the Reno 911 cops

Winner of the Best Individual Costume, Busch Stadium Beer Man

Best Couples Costume Runners-up, Michael and Debbie Phelps

Jennifer Beales from Flashdance

The religious contingent

Newlywed Prizefighters


Redneck Fishin'

Sarah Palin's daughter Bristol and high school hockey star & baby's daddy

MU Homecoming 2008

This past weekend, Ryan and I ventured back to the University of Missouri, my alma mater, for Homecoming. Did you know that the tradition of "Homecoming" was actually started at Mizzou??

In 1891, the football border battle rivaly between MU and KU began, as the Tigers faced the KU Jayhawks on the college football gridiron. This rivalry would become the oldest college football rivalry west of the Mississippi River. Perhaps because of this intense war between the states, the battle always took place at a neutral site, usually in Kansas City. In 1911, a change in conference regulations required that all intercollegiate football games were required to be played on campus. At this time Missouri trailed in the series by a count of 12-3-5 so there was a need to renew some excitement to this series. Fearing low attendance, Chester L. Brewer, MU's Director of Athletics, invited the alumni to "come home" for the game. As part of this celebration of "coming home," there was a parade and spirit rally to coincide with the actual game -- and the tradition of "Homecoming" was born. Since that time, the University of Missouri has served as a model for the various Homecoming celebrations that take place across the nation.

This year’s Homecoming weekend was fantastic and exciting as usual!! The weather could not have been better and we had the most amazing tailgate location (thanks Jewell!). Ladder golf, beer pong and BBQ were all appreciated. Both my brothers were there, as well as tons of friends. And although our team is highly ranked, the losses in the last two weekends to Texas and Oklahoma State (both top ten teams) had us all a little nervous. However, Colorado was no match for our Tigers, winning 58-0. MIZ-ZOU!! Here are some pictures of the tailgate and game.